If you're in a relationship, you need to be comfortable about talking about everything. From my time being here, so many people have helped answer my questions and that's what I've gathered thus far. You should talk to her the day before so it doesn't come across as rape. lol.
People who haven't sex sometimes have weird interpretations of situations and I don't want you to get into legal trouble if she somehow misinterprets the situation. I'm thinking worse-case scenario. You don't know me very well, but I always think of worst-case scenarios when I'm dealing with situations so that I'm mentally prepared for them when they happen.
I don't think she's ready if she was with a guy for a year and didn't have sex. That's a long time without sex.
Last edited by Raze; 30-07-10 at 01:21 AM.
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