Hiya everyone I have some good news for me and a question or two if anyone is kind to give me some advice.
A month ago I posted this thread here if anyone wants to see the whole story
I will paste it at the end of this post.
The short version:
I'll be 25 soon, virgin, never had a girlfriend I made a list of all the girls I dated (17 in total).
I met this girl ... 18th. And we got involved romantically, we've been on a couple of dates, we made out a lot and she seems to be into me, for some reason I don't know.
We talked about when we lost our virginity and I lied of course and toled her 7 years ago.
She is making a lot of future plans with me and also it seems she wants to have sex quite soon.
My question is... if we get to have sex, the day we do it should I confess that I lied and I'm actually a virgin ? Or should I tell her sooner ? Or never ? If I was like 18, 19 or even 20 years old I definitely would but I'm quite old to be virgin and I'm afraid she might dump me.
Ah and... is there a good date number I should pop a red rose ? or i should never do that ?
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This is the old post for anyone that is intrested:
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Hello! I'm new around here.
I don't know why I am posting here and I don't know what kind of response I want or even what I want to ask.
I guess I just need to tell my story, I'm to ashamed to tell this to any of my friends.
I am 24 and I have never been with a girl, never even kissed.
This last year, since Dec. 2008 I have dated a lot. My first date was a desastre, with time I have studied, I read books and many articles on dating, girls, I have talked with people and I have learned a lot and I really do meen a lot.
Never the less, whatever I try, to talk more, to be more charming, to buy a simple flower, everything fails I have learned to play my game perfectly.
I have dated 12 girls this passed year. Different ages with different backgrounds, I've date ugly and beautiful girls.
I don't have a lot of money and I don't have a super sport car. I am bellow average looking. I am not short or to tall nor fat or skinny. I am a very outgoing person with many friends.
It's just... girls don't like me.
Any input is very appreciated.