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Thread: Start something based on wrong reasons?

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    Start something based on wrong reasons?

    ok, so there's this girl...
    she openly says how she likes me, and I'm affraid i cant say the same at this moment... dont get me wrong, we had a great time last night, talked for hours, laughed etc... but i dont feel any chemistry...
    so the fact that I never had a girlfriend keeps me the most in this story. i would like to have one, and give her a chance, a chance that maybe soon i'll get into her.
    i think the biggest problem is that she got some weights in last few monts... all the pictures I saw of her, are skinny and beautiful, and then this chubby girl came and I was a little schocked... she has some health problems, and because of that she got those extra pounds...


    so basicly. what should I do? should I give her a chance because:
    i would like to start a relationship with someone (not because of sex, it's not like that at all, i would just wanted to see how is that and get some exp.), i have a great communication with her, she likes me, i think i may feel something soon
    or I shouldn't because:
    i dont find her actractive, it's wrong to play with someones feelings

    ????

    please responde

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    If you're not passionately attracted to someone, you won't be happy long term and it would only work if you forced it to. Nothing more to be said.

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    It wouldn't be cool to play games with the girl for your own personal, selfish reasons.

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