Hi I'm sammiijo I am 36 and a single mum with a 6 year old son. Last April I became friends with my sons best friends dad. He's the same age as me. He'd been separated from his wife in the January. She'd left him for his best friend. His wife is also 36 they'd been together on and off for 10 years. She's been violent with him and is a bad mother. She let her mother in law bring the child up from the age of 3 months till he started school. She slept with her sisters husband and is an alcoholic. They started divorce proceedings. I started seeing him in August. We had a wonderful relationship. He is a good man but wants a quiet life, she was supposed to let him have his son at 10 every Sunday she wouldn't let him go till 6 at night but J never made a fuss, didnt want to cause trouble. We got on brilliantly. Both said we had never been so happy, never loved as much, the best sex ever, etc. it just felt right. People who saw us said it was real. Well she found out J was seeing me in October dumped her man(his ex best friend) and started phoning and texting him all day begging him to take her back. He said no, he'd moved on, he was happy with me. She would sit outside the house all night begging him. Well he told me no way would he get back with her. His parents told him they'd disown him if he did. So on the 19th December he sends me a text in the morning about how much he loves me like he sent everyday but at 8 he turns up crying cos he loves me but wants to be with his kids at Christmas!! So I let him go. He's taken that alcoholic violent skank back so he can be with his kids and given up me and his family!! What do you make of this situation???