I am a physically attractive man just out of college. I am looking for a long term life partner. Emotions and ideas are what matter to me. For some reason, women will exchange eye glances with me (such as for a few minutes in a cafe), but when I move closer to start a conversation, they start breaking eye contact and give me body language that says "I dont want to talk." For me, I have to talk to the woman in order to get to know her. Is this just a hint that the woman doesnt want to have a conversation? Or is it just that they like being pursued and would like me to do something to get their attention?