My wife left me about close to 1 month ago. She will not give me a reason. We have honestly had a very good relationship. I still love her to death, we never went through a rough patch and she decided to tell me that she wants a divorce and left the house to stay with a girl friend that she has known since very young. I live in Ohio and she wants to get a disillusion in which we both have to agree. I have no answers as to why and I have done a lot of research that truly suggests that she is not involved with anyone else. My question at this point is what should I do in this situation. I feel like I should not agree to the disillusion, she does not want to take anything so I am not worried about material objects in anyway. I made my vows to her and I meant them. She is not willing to see a counselor with me. I DO NOT want this. Is it worth it to go through an actual divorce with her? I am doing all I can to save the marriage but I feel like I have not made any progress. does anyone have any ideas or opinions on this? What would the courts do or say in this situation. She honestly has nothing bad to say about me. I'm lost and I just want to try and work things out. The night before we watched a movie together.. cuddled and even made love.. This makes no sense to me. She woke up and wanted to leave me? Nothing slowed down and we both truly seemed happy but she wants to rush this and have me agree on things I don't want...