Hi, everyone. I know this girl for about 10 months now, and I asked her out about six months ago, then I ask if she would like to be in a relationship with me five months ago. She said she wanted to wait and see.
So we stayed friends, and last night, I mentioned to her about how I was led on by this one girl a year ago, and that she got married after I was basically a little bitch for her for a long time. And I told her that I don't want to be hurt in the same way anymore, and asked if there are any possibility of us being together.
She said that she just wants to enjoy the moment and that we are just friends, what happens in the future she doesn't know. She believes that everything happens for a reason and that if we are going to be together, we will.
Then I basically asked if she will tell me when the time comes that, either she realizes she wants to be in a relationship with me or that she finds another person who she rather be with. She agreed after some hesitation.
I'm 25 and she is almost 24, well, we come from every different background as she has had many relationship that fails and that I had one that turned into a "leading me on". I wanted a relationship and she doesn't feel she needs to be in one. But, she wants me to be around her.
So guys and gals, I know this is very common, but what are your thoughts on this? I usually do not cry, and I didn't cry in the last relationship. But I cried last night thinking about this (she cried during the conversation...). I'm confused and really don't know what to think.
Thank you so much and any inputs on this will be appreciated!