This all started when I went a college reunion last week, to cut the story short my husband met someone who I dated from college and he learned that I had sex with him. I had told him that I was a virgin, because I knew it would make him upset, and he would want to break up with me, but we had so much good chemistry, everything was great with him. We've been together for 8 years, married for 3 years, we just had beautiful baby girl together about a year ago. Everything is great between us until this. He wants a divorce now. He doesn't want to talk about it. Every time we talk now its never on personal level, its very formal. The only thing he said that come close to being on a emotional/personal level was, "I don't think we need a counselor, YOU need a lawyer". On the weekend, he come home with a girl. I asked who she was, he said her name and nothing more. They went into his room and I think they had sex. I thought if he had sex with someone else maybe he could get whatever he has out of his system. The next day, nothing changed.
His not interested in talking about this, I asked him can we talk about this. He said "What are you referring to?", I said "about the all this that's happening with you, your acting like this different person. This is NOT you." he replied "sorry, I don't mean to seem rude, I don't know what you talking about. Have a good day" and he left for work.
I don't know what I'd do without him, I love him to bits. What should I do? Is there ANYTHING that I can do?
I just want my life to go back to the way it was.
EDIT:I've never seen him like this, he is like a completely changed person. He is usually very emotional, says cute things, cheer full. And he doesn't seem upset at all about any of this, I am a wreck. His just very formal now. I didn't even realize that he was this serious about the the divorce. The first I knew about the divorce was when a process server, severed me with the papers on Tuesday morning. I tried calling him at work and on his phone, he never picked up, the next day I received a phone call from the police, the Constable told me There were some allegation that I was harassing him, and I told him the story, he said, well he doesn't want you to call him. I want you to stop calling him, otherwise I would be charged with harassment". I don't know why he is doing all these immature things, like reporting me to the police.