Help a lady out

[pixielady]

Hope some of you fellas can help me out a bit...

I have a friend who is very dear to me and recently he told me that he wants to have sex with me. We never had sex but we have been flirting. He told me this a few times over the months. Then once he said we must remain friends at all cost but yet he gets weird and jealous about other men.

What the hell is his problem?

[Mish]

He wants you in bed and you won't let him.

That's his problem. That's pretty much it, I think.

[Graham Berkeley]

Yeah he wants to nail you and is jealous other guys get too. How more straight forward do you need him to tell you that?

[pixielady]

Well the thing is, he tries to hide his jealousy and even slipped up and said he think he is in love with me. But yes, sometimes he get quiet or snappy at me when I mention another male to him very innocently.

[Gigabitch]

The friendship is over. He should stop fooling himself, and stop trying to pretend he's not in love with you.

He's potentially dangerous, pixie. Do you realize this?

[pixielady]

Thanks so much for the replies!

This fella is quite shy and reserved but also admitted that he does play some games. I can see that he is indeed feeling something for me now because the other day, he was very down when I ignored him a bit...

[Disillusioned]

He's potentially dangerous, pixie. Do you realize this?

How so?:::

[FullofSighs]

Maybe he migh force sex on her? Wouldn't be the first time it happened

[Jason86]

Didn't you read what you wrote, you knowing flirt with the guy. Which would lead anyone on! If you didn't want it to get this far you should have nip it in the bud, the second he said he wanted to bang you. Women like you are GARBAGE, you don't care for him, you just like the attention he gives you. He has a right to get jealous, you're entertaining his advances, while playing with other men. One word for you lady....DIRTBAG

[davidtorres]

He likes you and you like the attention. Why entertain it if you're going to be bugged by his jealousy?

[chump4u]

What the hell is his problem?

You've dangled this fish on your hook for months, and now you ask what is his problem?

Girl, what the Hell is your problem?

[pixielady]

Didn't you read what you wrote, you knowing flirt with the guy. Which would lead anyone on! If you didn't want it to get this far you should have nip it in the bud, the second he said he wanted to bang you. Women like you are GARBAGE, you don't care for him, you just like the attention he gives you. He has a right to get jealous, you're entertaining his advances, while playing with other men. One word for you lady....DIRTBAG

Dude you need to chill, alright? Resorting to insults is so childish.

Besides, I DO love him dearly and with all my heart, it just confuses me when a man says he is in love with me and then says we must remain friends, then gets jealous and still flirts... WTF!

[pixielady]

The friendship is over. He should stop fooling himself, and stop trying to pretend he's not in love with you.

He's potentially dangerous, pixie. Do you realize this?

I don't see how he could be dangerous, he is a very sweet and mild-mannered person, Giga and has been my best friend for a long time. To be honest, ANYbody can be potentially dangerous, you know?

[Sanctuary]

Didn't you read what you wrote, you knowing flirt with the guy. Which would lead anyone on! If you didn't want it to get this far you should have nip it in the bud, the second he said he wanted to bang you. Women like you are GARBAGE, you don't care for him, you just like the attention he gives you. He has a right to get jealous, you're entertaining his advances, while playing with other men. One word for you lady....DIRTBAG

Holy shit lol - someone's been hurt in the past.

[Sanctuary]

You've dangled this fish on your hook for months, and now you ask what is his problem?

Girl, what the Hell is your problem?

She doesn't realize how infatuated with her this guy is, you can't really blame her. It's not her problem that he's such a ****ing chump.