Sorry just doesn't cut it...

[jMarkt]

What is the best way to win someone back... knowing that you've made terrible mistakes... But you both know that you love each other.

I want to tell her I'm sorry... Although it just doesn't cut it anymore.
I want her to know that she's the best thing that's ever happened to me.. but I've been stupid and messed it up.

I want her back.

From a woman's point of view...
What is the best way to tell her I'm sorry and ask her to give me ANOTHER chance?

[vashti]

Bargain with her. Ask her to give you time to prove yourself to her - maybe a year? - before cutting you off completely. I don't know what you did, or if you deserve another chance, but this may help.

[jMarkt]

Hmm. I'll try that. I hope she takes me back... She says I don't deserve another chance... but she still says she loves me and wants me back. But she doesn't know if it would be a good idea.

I hope she'll give in and give me another chance.

[Paranthropus]

What exactly did you do?

[jMarkt]

I'd rather not disclose that information.. heh

but she took me back.. I can't and won't mess up anymore cuz I need her

[bluesummer]

I never like it when someone says they 'need' somebody. My ex did that, and he was the most dependent, immature man I've been in a relationship with......not to mention a cheater.

Don't mess up her life jMarkt. She doesn't deserve that after giving you a chance you may not have deserved. Just remember....karma is a bitch.

[jMarkt]

Heh. Well let me rephrase that then. I love her and I would be misserable without her.

and no I didn't cheat on her.

[bluesummer]

Ok then. Good luck and treat her better this time, ok?

[vashti]

Why is what you did a secret? It's not like anyone here knows who you are (or ever will)...

[Gigabitch]

What you have to do is make yourself worth keeping. You make yourself sound like a real piece of shit. I'd dump you too.

Why did she take you back if you're so awful?

[jMarkt]

Alright! damn.. lol go to the love advice forum it's all there.

I have trust and jealousy issues. She and I have been together for a year and a half now and it seems my feelings are getting the best of me. I've been with many other girls before but never has it driven me crazy...
This is the first time I've fallen so deep for someone and I guess inside, I'm unconcsiously tryin to make things more complicated than they are.

You make yourself sound like a real piece of shit. I'd dump you too.

I make myself sound like a piece of shit Gigabitch cuz I feel bad that I'm bein really selfish and I'm TRYIN to change cuz I don't want to hurt her. She really IS the best thing that's ever happened to me.

But thank you all though... it helps knowing that everyone else thinks that I'm being really STUPID... and that the important thing is that she loves me and we make each other happy.

[Gigabitch]

We don't know anything if you don't tell us, silly boy.

Hmmm. Insecurity. Yep, that's poison. You understand that your insecurities are not about her at all, right? Yes, it's happing more intensely with her than anyone else in the past, but that's not her fault. You just have feelings for her that are stronger and it's challenging you in a new way.

Jealousy will ruin you. You've got to get a grip on yourself.

[cheeze_guy]

on that note im a pretty jelous guy but I do keep it to myself! I'd never hit a girl or anything because of it ad I really am a good boyfriend just a bit jelous... why do I get jelous so easily (like is there a common reason or something?) I know its good that I keep it to myself but it kinda eats at u sometimes. I guess i am a bit insecure but at the same time maybe I have a hard time trusting women i dont know!