Oh where do I begin
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over three years now, we are both currently college students. He just move away to go to a different school about three months ago. Everything has been fine untill about a week ago; my bf called me up and proceeded to tell me that he no longer wanted to have sex of any kind and if I wanted sex then I should not come out and see him. This was caused by the fact that he feels that he has contracted genital herpes from me, even though he has not been tested, he is convinced. He has known the whole time we've been intimate that I have herpes, and has been okay with it. He is very mad at me right now and says he'll never forgive me. This I understand is normal because of the shock of what might be happening but he is getting incredible paranoid and a little obsessed with this. I don't know what to do because I really thought he was okay with it, and he had a full understanding of the risks. But he has stated that he does not want to have sex again untill he is prepared for children because his "luck has been down". Because of this we're hardly talking and he is now saying that he wants me to come down to see him to "keep up appearances" I am very confused with all of this, and would appreciate any third party perspectives on it.