What would a girl normally be thinking?

[NinjaTim]

Theres a girl who I know who used to be quite a hard partier and sleep around somewhat. She used to be attracted to me, but it was back when I had a girl friend. She tried to make out with me at a party and I refused. This was about 6-7 months ago, and now we've been talking. It seems like she has really changed and matured a lot. She almost never drinks, and overall just seems a lot more responsible.

Anyway, we ended up going to a couple parties together (neither of us drank much if any), and ended up watching a movie after one of them (nothing else). Then she came by my house when my roommates and I were having a small get together. We were all drinking a good bit (hey we're college kids, don't judge ). She knew I was pretty inexperienced and had only slept with one girl. She texted me some very forward messages, basically asking if I wanted to have sex while we were at the party, and afterward we ended up having sex (she seemed very into it). A few days after that I went to her house, and we just chilled out and watched movies for a few hours and didn't do anything else. She asked me what I had thought about that night, and I said I didn't really know what to think about it. After that we've just been chatting, texting, or talking on the phone a little.

I've asked her a couple of times if she wanted to go do something like go to a movie or whatever, and she's said she is busy. A couple of days ago she came by when some friends and I were grilling out at her apartment complex, but that about it. Was she just looking for a one night stand or does she seem to be legitimately interested in me? She does work a lot and have a big workload with school, but is it that or is she trying to subtly tell me she doesn't want to see me any more?

[vashti]

Why don't you ask her? It would save you a lot of time wondering...

[doppelgaenger]

Maybe she's playing hard to get, or maybe she just wanted sex. Ask her next chance you get (alone)