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    somebody help me(Please read my story fully)

    Dear All

    I love my sweetie so much and also i told her so.
    This is our conversion which happened four days before.

    Me:I wanna ask you one thing,you should not mistake me..
    my sweetie:ya tell..
    Me:Y cant we marry?
    My sweetie:R u serious?
    Me:Ya
    My sweetie:k,but the problem is the society.
    (and she started speaking abt those things)
    Me:see we have good understandings and we trust each other.we are not living for society
    (she told something abt the society problems more)
    My sweetie: I didnt hide anything from you.I told about you to my mom more because she should feel that you are a good boy.
    (finally the topic was diverted to something)

    The above conversations happened when sat on my bike so i couldnt see her face also.

    after that we had normal behaviour and i didnt ask her anything abt this...
    It still going on....
    but whenver she speaks na she is telling me as 'friend'.

    I cannot understands anything...

    I didnt get proper reply from her..

    FYI,she also told me once that "I love You"..

    she shared with me her personal information which she didnt even share with anyone..

    She told "You made me to feel comfortable to share my personal information with you and also i trust you"

    once when i said its all because of you ..for that she replied that "Our relationship is like Husband and Wife,Father and mother,Friend, so dont split this"..then why should she still hold up declaration...cant understand?

    After a long time ,she told me that" If i tells a person that i will marry him,i may refuse him before marriage" after saying this she asked me"Did u understand?"...
    I told "ok"....then she continued "but if i loves them na i will marry him even the world says 'no' "....i am having doubt that why should she check me that i understood or not,that too twice,only for first sentence....I dont know what to conclude in that message and also i dont know whether she loves me or not...any solution please....
    Last edited by smartguy; 07-07-11 at 07:19 PM.

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    I think she doesn't love you, that's why she doesn't want marriage.

    If you buy her things, that will explain why she stays around. What do you buy her? Gasoline? Trips? Food? Little presents?
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

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