i was just after some advice RE communication.. basically i have some apologising and explaining to do to a girl ive been on a few dates with.. i know exactly what to say (im not really worried what happens, i have nothing to lose) but what is the best way to do it? phone, note passed on thru one of her friends or email? im thinking the note is best coz it gives me the chance to say what i have to say without her saying things, (which would happen if it were by phone) just worried that note looks a little pussyish?? what do you reckon is best method here?