or is he just telling me what I want to hear?
The night he asked me out, he started talking about having more babies with me and getting married and talking about the future together. Once I moved in with him 9 months later, pretty much all talk of that stopped. I feel like he only purposed to me because I kept mentioning how a friend of mine of family members ( cousins, uncles etc). I felt like because we're in a serious relationship I could tell about about things like that. I don't feel I was being pushy and hinting anything other then saying "My cousin Megan just got engaged! I"m so happy for her."
We're engaged now. He purposed June 22nd, 2009. We haven't made any wedding plans, havent talked about it in a serious way for longer then 10 mins. He doesn't think it's true that you have to plan a wedding for a year, he figures maybe 6 months of planning and thats it. He's changed the wedding date we agreed on 3 times. First was sept 11, 2010, then april 9,2011 and now its May 28th, 2011. He doesn't bring up wedding stuff other then the cost and to change the date or if we've had a fight about the fact it's never talked about. The same goes for talk about more kids. We have a 4 yr old daughter and I want more kids, I want another one about 2 yrs ago,but he keeps giving reasons or excuses as to why we can't or shouldn't have another right now. When I ask him for a time-frame, he says " In a year or so." He's been saying that for almost 3 years.
I'm frusterated and confused .... is he just stringing me along? Is he scared of commitment? I'm to the point where I don't know if this is someone I want to marry anymore because he keeps changing his mind on certain things and not talking about them seriously.