I'm 17 and i had sex with a 35 year old man who I barely know?

[babygirll]

I don't know what the hell I was thinking.oh and we live right across from each other. idk what to do now..

i was weak, we had a great time, cuddled and talked for two hours after sex and then i left. it was amazing but now i kind of regret everything that happened. help

I feel sick , disgusted, used, slutyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[vashti]

Tell your father. He'll know what to do.

[lalalita]

Relax. You're young, lapses in judgment will happen. As long as you used protection, it's in the past now and you can learn from it.

[babygirll]

Tell your father. He'll know what to do.

i can't tell my dad no i can't.he would be so dissapointed

[babygirll]

Relax. You're young, lapses in judgment will happen. As long as you used protection, it's in the past now and you can learn from it.

he used a condom.But i have let my family down i feel like a slut.he wasn't even goodlooking I know it's the past but i can't get over it i can't stop thinking about it makes me feel dirty.i don't know how i can explain this better i'm no good with words

i feel disgusted in myself

[horndog]

if you did it without being pressured and with full consent without being under the influence of booze or drugs, chalk it up as a lesson learned. If you were coerced or forced then you may want to contact the authorities. I don't know if you are considered a minor where you live.

[lalalita]

You'll get over it. Give it some time.

[babygirll]

nope i wasn't drunk.the age of consent in the uk is 16 so he can't get done for it.

i don't ever want to see his pervert face again

[lalalita]

He's not a pervert if you consented. LOL. It takes two to tango. Own your mistake.

[searock]

He's not a pervert if you consented.

Well yes he is, he is a grown adult and had sex with a kid. That would be perverted even if the kid had enough judgement and maturity to actually be able to "consent".

I'm sorry, OP. Have you talked to someone about what happened? You aren't a "slut", you just made a mistake. Take it as a learning opportunity. I hope this wasn't your first time having sex?

[devilish]

I don't see nothing wrong if you both consented.Is he married?

[lalalita]

I don't think he's a pervert. She's of legal age. Some men like younger girls. As long as she is of age, he's not doing anything wrong.

[babygirll]

I'm sorry, OP. Have you talked to someone about what happened? You aren't a "slut", you just made a mistake. Take it as a learning opportunity. I hope this wasn't your first time having sex?

nope I've had a boyfriend before.I haven't told anyone apart from a close friend.

I don't see nothing wrong if you both consented.Is he married?

I don't know, I barely know him which it what disgusts me but he appears to be single.

[searock]

I don't think he's a pervert. She's of legal age. Some men like younger girls. As long as she is of age, he's not doing anything wrong.

One thing is liking younger girls (20-25), another thing is a 35 year old man having sex with a 17 year old kid.

[ParadiseLost]

Its hard to judge without knowing how it happened - what leaded to it, what you both talked and how you encouraged each other.