Lost

[Luvs9399]

so I met this really cute guy in December and we were like two peas in a pod. I mean text everyday and miss each other all time. Until I made the dumbest move ever. I was drunk one weekend and told him that I would doubt him sometimes because I always think guys are after sex. I immediately aplogized to him via text as soon as I woke up realizing what I said but no answer then I called him once two days later and still no response. A few days later my friends just so happen to be going on a double date at his job and ran into him and told him that I seriously didn't mean what I said and he told them that he felt offended and was very upset but that he would call me back. Two days went by and I still haven't heard from him so I texted him saying, "are we going to move pass this or would u prefer to move on?" and he responded "it's ok, I'm over it". So I texted him the next day and he was quick and consistent with texting me but I could tell that our chemistry thru text wasn't the same. A week goes by without hearing from him, and I met up with some frinds at his job and he walks over to me and says hi (since I had no intentions of walking to him) to me and when I left, we were flirting via text and since then he still doesn't hit me up but when I check in to say hi, he's real nice about it and will text me back. He'll even text me back in the morning if he fell asleep on me. I've tried taking him out to eat and hanging out with him but he's been telling me that he's so busy now. I just want things to go back to how they were but he's sending me weird messages. What do u guys think? Do I have a chance of making this work again?

[Ann S]

Well, this is a great example of not being able to take back what one says! And it seems like YOU are doing all the chasing!! Guys, correct me if I'm wrong, but according to some of my sources, guys like to do the pursuing! Things aren't going to go back the way they were. All his behavior tells you that. I hope you move on and don't make the same mistake again. When we're wasted we can not edit ourselves! Good Luck. Ann

[Art.Roman]

I don't like to do the chasing, Ann. ;D

Luvs9399, maybe time has passed and he just feels weird about it now. I think you should keep trying. He wouldn't be waking up and texting you back unless he has feelings for you. Well, I suppose he could simply be friendly but I dont think so. It sounds like he got upset and then continued being angry for too long and now it's hard to re-establish the atmosphere. But you should keep trying. I think he still likes you.