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    Date-a-Holic

    Some of the ladies I have dated recently seem to date several guys at once. THis includes sex. I don't like being in this kind of situation.

    I can't change a person so all I ask is what are your thoughts in this practice. Do you consider it disrespectful or ...


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    I don't think it is disrespectful as long as all parties are honest about it. I don't personally want to sleep with more than one guy or with one guy who is sleeping with more than one girl. I am honest and up-front about that and fine with guys choosing not to date me because of it. I think the opposite position would work the same way. There are enough guys who prefer to work that way, you have no obligation to agree to it for yourself.

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    It's not disrespectful at all. They don't owe you exclusivity. So, there are many girls who don't sleep around with the men they're dating, find one. Note: It's simple you just don't have to accept these women, but they are not doing anything wrong.

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