Originally Posted by
winter32842
I am kind of short, nerdy, greeky, and loser type of a guy.
Ok... low self-esteem alert here. Not judging you, I'm the same. I think your attraction for this girl is magnified by you thinking so poorly of yourself, because then you think "oh, she's SO much better than me...", etc. etc.
The ideal solution here would be to improve yourself, tracking down the things in you that make you think you're a loser and trying to work on them. Of course this only applies if they're actual flaws, otherwise you should try to accept them and be happy with who you are, blablabla psychologist talk. :p
If you can succesfully improve your self-esteem, I think you'll either get this girl or be less miserable about not having her. Win-win.
The key here is, how? I don't know, unfortunately I hate myself, lol. Sorry.
Last edited by irrelevant_89; 27-12-09 at 01:40 AM.
Time to stop complaining when there is no reason to. Life's good, man.