Ok, my dilemma is this. I am 26, and found the love of my life and went out with her for 9 months. We were wonderful and perfect and crazy for each other. I had to go and work in London (I'm from NZ) and she decided to go on her Overseas Experience (OE) while I did this. We were meant to wait for each other but she lived it up in France, met a guy and he proposed to her (after a few weeks) - she was caught up in the moment and said yes and got pregnant to him too.
I was gutted (understandibly) but tried to put it behind me, then a couple of months later I got a letter from her saying she was stuck and didn't love this guy and that she felt nothing for him compared to me. So I rang her and she said she was stuck but was still going to go ahead with the marriage.
That was 3 months ago and I still cannot get over her, no matter how hard I have tried. I have had two relationships in the last 5 months with other people and no matter how awesome they are, all I think of is her. Its 8 months since we've been apart and I have been single for about 4 months of that, and still can't get over her. I have an incredibly active social/sports life, and am doing really well in my job - but still there is part of me that is always pining for her.
I don't know what to do - I know everyone says move on, but does anyone have a similar experience - because I know what we had was soooo amazing and incredible and I want it and her back badly. And all the songs I listen to seem to say that I should never give up and "if you saw your dream would you walk by?" and "no matter what it takes I'll wait here for you"........
Do I wait for her, try to contact her, get counselling or what?
Help!!!!!