How do you ladies flirt then?

[RollingonremZ]

Because i've found that many girls flirt in many different ways, so whats your style?

[Ellynn]

I'm kinda shy, so maybe I'll catch his eye for awhile or give him a smile and then look away. Then I'll kinda act shy and not say alot around him. But thats just me, everyone is different.

[Tiay]

Tickle.com tells me that I am a "subtle flirt", but I would've know that without filling out questions
I'm just myself-- it's not like I decide i'm gonna flirt and then I execute a number of rehearsed pre-medetated moves or something... it just happens. When I met my bf for instance there was just such an energy in the air... mmm..

[lollerskater]

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[Tiay]

BOOM!!!

sorry, couldn't help it.

[anhmaimaiyeuvn]

Yah, I was going to ask the same question in another forum coincidentally I found this one, thax RollingongRemz!

So "how do you gals flirt anyway."

Is it better when you flirt to have touching, teasing, making eye-contacts basically being humourous and playful?
Will you girls give out your phone number after flirting or no?

[Gigabitch]

Flirting is most effective when I react to his flirting. If he's trying to amuse me, I laugh. If he's being a gentleman, I am a lady. Men like to feel that they're in control. There's no reason to let them think otherwise.

[Junket]

Flirting is most effective when I react to his flirting. If he's trying to amuse me, I laugh. If he's being a gentleman, I am a lady. Men like to feel that they're in control. There's no reason to let them think otherwise.

We're obviously in control if you feel compelled to react that way to make us feel like we're in control.

Why is it that so many women feel like they hold all the cards?

[Tiay]

*pets Frasbee* of course you're in control, dear.
*snicker*..

[Junket]

Don't patronize me.

Is that all you can do to boost your ego?

And of course I'm in control.

There's nothing to dictate otherwise.

[Tiay]

oh my, he's getting agitated..

but seriously, the point is that if a girl is flirting she'll play along, laugh at your jokes even if she doesn't find them funny, etc. She choses to do so because she wants you to feel good about your joking abilities. She could just as easily choose to ignore you if she wanted, and of course so could you. So insisting that you are 'in control' in that sense is just idiotic.

[Junket]

So insisting that you are 'in control' in that sense is just idiotic.

Exactly.
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