what makes you even want her back?
and i guesst you give her what she is missing from you.
for example the good sex and the domination she has gotten from him and possibly not from you.
do you know any reasons for her going back to her ex?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.