I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year now. My boyfriend extremely social and has a lot of friends who are girls.It really bothers me a lot. He chat with this one girl every single day for hours after meeting her a couple of times.He started going out of his way to help her and he would text her good luck before any important event for her and they pull each others legs. I thought if I got to know her better I wouldn't get too affected but in spite of me trying, she never responded and she keeps getting closer to him.I did have a chat with my boyfriend and asked him if he could reduce the frequency of him talking to her.He did for a bit but it seems like its back to how it was before. And now he's chatting with more girls with the same proximity. The number of such friends just keep increasing and for some reason and I feel like I am just going to get left behind and his life is going to go on without me I have a lot on my plate with my job and studies and he has a lot more time to socialize and go out with them. I always get frustrated because he spends more time with them than with me and I feel it doesn't matter to him anymore, if I am not around because he has all these other girls around. I told him about this . He told me that's stupid and there was a reason he's with me and not with them. But his life still goes on with them and me spending very little time with him and it doesn't seem to bother him that I am not around a lot.
I need a guy's perspective on this.