So, before me and my fiancee met, she was hooking up with a co-worker. This was a long time ago. But because they work together, and are together everyday, i find myself thinking about the two of them being intimate a lot. And it drives me crazy? Do you think if he was out of the picture, not a part of her everyday life, id stop thinking about it? It has nothing to do with trust, cuz i trust her whole heartedly...its just, because i know theyre together, and when she gets home she sometimes talks about him sometimes, that i think about them and picture things. Im very jealous. My question is, do u think if he were just another guy that has come and gone, id have gotten over it already? Because i think its the fact that hes still apart of her life that i feel so jealous and cant think about anything else.