Winning a female co worker over
So this is what happened in a nut shell...she used to drop lines to me about how she misses me and your so funny. This was about 2 months ago. I always have been hesitant on starting relationships with co workers but this girl I couldn't resist. So I started to form feelings towards her. She asked me out for drinks with other co workers and we had a great time. About a month ago her father passed away and I attended the funeral to support her. The next time she saw me she gave me the most wonderful hug I've ever had. I didn't want to express my true feelings until some time went by after the passing of her father. I did end up asking her out for coffee and she had family plans and said maybe another time. This was two weeks ago. So we continued to flirt, she made a little heart gesture with her hands and she was giving off a lot of intense body language. She even seemed jealous when I was talking with other females. So I got up the nerve to ask her out again tonight by a text and she replied with "I will go out for coffee as friends for sure but I have been seeing someone for almost a month and I don't think he'd like if it was a date . I am honestly so confused. I know that I need to accept it and move on. I am going to be a good man and be her friend. Is there anyway that I can win her over? I honestly felt like we were soulmates. Even today she still mirrors by body language and seemed like she's interested. I honestly dont understand why she never mentioned anything about a boyfriend the first time I asked her for a coffee. I replied by saying I got ya, he's a lucky man. I am in my late 20's and I have only had 1 girlfriend in my entire life. This always happens to me, and then I shut down for months on end.