Hi everyone,
First time poster on anything like this, but I was looking for some advice. I'll keep this brief. My ex gf (20) broke up with me (26) about 5 weeks ago now, after being together 6 months. It was all quite out the blue, and to be honest I was really disappointed. She cited that she felt she didn't want a bf and that things had moved quite fast, and she felt suffocated. So I respected that and took a step back. I preferred to end things on good terms and gave her a hug as I left. I even text about an hour later to say that I was glad we got to end things on good terms and that I'd had a great time and that I'd no doubt see her out and about at some point.
After 5 weeks of no contact I found out that she got together with my friend from work. We all worked there but I left recently. It was a blow, but even more so when I found out it was the night we broke up!!
I cared about this girl so much, and although it was only 6 months I had liked her for a long time before that, so it hurts nonetheless. My friend has tried calling me and even left a voicemail saying how sorry he was, that he was beyond drunk but there was still no excuse.
My question is what to do with her? Part of me wants to contact her and tell her how it was a low blow and pretty selfish, but my other side is saying just to leave it and continue no contact. I know she's now single so can do as she pleases, but to do that to me on the night we split has hurt me and set me back a bit. I know it will ultimately help me to move on, but I still don't know how to deal with this. Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks