we been dating almost 2 yrs. he was in a off and on relationship for like 24 years. before he met me.. he is (50) i am (39) anyways before i say this i been to his job and everything and his ex and alot of other people knows he worked there in the past. anyways i called his job knowing they would relate this message to him and i asked if he worked there they said yes..i then said can you tell me if he drives or takes a bus . they said well we cant tell you that information. which i knew they would of said anyways. well 3 days went by and he didnt tell me that he got a weired phone call from some woman asking if he worked there or drove, took a bus. so last night i said did you talk to becky anytime friday ( co-worker) thats who i spoke to.. he said yeh for a min. i then said so did u ever find out who called you. he said no im tring to figure it out. i said why didnt u tell me about this. he said because its not important. he said i wanted to know who it was first. i said regardless if ur gonna tell me befor or after you find out. he said well i am waiting to see if i get a email or something. MY QUESTION IS .... why didnt he tell me ???? and then he sais.. well i knew it was you... if he felt it was me. he would of said did you call my job being silly asking questions or he would of said something like that to me. so basically he turned it on me obviously.. why wouldnt he of told me ???