2 girls 1 guy

[Mr_Eli]

Hey, first time posting here so please be gentle I hung out with 2 girls, at the same time, last month. 2 friends. The girl that initiated the whole thing got my number from a mutual friend, I am not attracted to her at all (Let's call her G). Her friend, meanwhile, I think is kinda cute but I don't have her contact info (Let's cal her F). I would like to hang out with F without G. How do I go about asking for her contact info? I don't want to offend G by asking F to hang out with me one-on-one. If I ask G for Fs contact information, I am afraid that might offend her in some way. Or should I just wait till the 3 of us hang out again, which will happen soon, and then just ask F for her phone number directly? But then, would it be okay to text/call F and see if she wants to hang out with me one-on-one? I think this a bit of a delicate situation and I am unsure as to how to approach it. All 3 of us are in our mid to late 20s.

Thanks in advance for all of the responses.

[SheffieldLad]

Look her up on Facebook

[Mr_Eli]

Look her up on Facebook

I feel that it might be a little creepy? Maybe it is just me.

[SheffieldLad]

I wouldn't think so if she's someone you've hung out with and she's a friend of a friend.

[smackie9]

This is a dicey situation. I'm gonna give you an idea what may happen. G really likes you, but G has a hot friend and she knows this. You ask G to hang out again and G will think you like her but only to find out you used her to get to her friend F. This will not go over well for sure. F may feel bad and won't go out with you anyways because she doesn't want to upset her friend G....this probably has happened before. Another thing that may happen is that G will show up with out F thinking you like her and when you ask where F is, she will figure it out and hate you. Best of luck.

[Happy]

It's really simple if you just think properly, honey. Either A, wait until you all hang out again and say "oh wow, F I just realized I don't have your number " then add it casually. B, look her up on facebook and add her, since you two have hung out in person, it shouldn't be any sort of problem. C, Tell G you forgot to get F's number, and you'd like the 3 of you to hang out again. Make sure you don't make it sound like F > G. That way, you're on a casual standing with everyone, and nobody gets hurt. But sweetheart if G does like you, and you're more into F, she's going to get hurt either way. Be prepared for that!