A guy I started working with in an artistic medium (who I have had a crush on for years but we were both dating others until now) asked me what I felt was kind of a strange question. I told him in person recently I live with roomates when he asked to get together and go over stuff and he relayed at that time his living situation. He emailed me to ask about doing a show with him soon and added "Are all of your roomates women?" I had also told him I dont always have a lot of energy these days and he offered to help me out if I ever need a ride to the Drs.
I can see asking someone "how many roommates do you have?".. but find it a little weird he asked if I live with all women. Does it sound like he's interested?
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HIM: How are you feeling today? Can you do a show with me next Thur night?
Do you live with all females by the way?
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ME: I can do Thurs, yes and I am feeling pretty good today.
I live with a female and two males. Why do you ask?
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HIM: just curious, that's all... I'm solo in a 1 1/2 bedroom in-law apt connected to a larger house with enough stuff for 2 apartments...
I'm glad you're feeling better. Are you still on for tonight's show?
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ME: Soooo you're looking to get rid of some furniture? Do you own the house?
Yup.. I'm on for tonight.
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HIM: (he erased my prior email when he responded this time)
No big deal about tonight, I understand, your health and energy level comes 1st.
ps-
by the way, if you're ever stuck with your medical stuff and you need a ride or help of some kind, let me know, I'd be happy to help if I can.
I know what it's about to be dealing with different health/medical stuff..
I've had my own for a few years, my sister had a couple bouts w/B.Cancer a couple of years ago, and I drove my ex to and helped her check into a couple of hospitals over the years.