Hi all,
I have been quite stressed recently with wondering what to do in life and whatnot, finding a job is hard and so I live with my parents and just plod along day by day.
My long term boyfriend lives in the same country but a few hours away and has commitments up there meaning that we are technically long distance relationship atm. But we talk on the phone every night, sometimes short time, sometimes for a few hours.
The thing is, I love him with all my heart, and he loves me so much too. We talk about marriage (his parents are really up for it too) and future, but we know (or at least I know) that we are not ready because I don't have a job and also I am not willing to leave the 'nest' quite yet.
Now the problem that's on my mind is, I have a friend who just happens to be male and lives in the same town as me. We don't meet up often or anything, but we text randomly quite alot. The texts are just about the most spontaneous topics, probably just because we are bored. But I like texting because he is funny and we make good friends.
My boyfriend and my just (guy)friend have met each other before and they had a good um 'guy' chat. So they get along with each other and are aware of each other.
I just want to know... is it normal to be so 'friends' with my guy friend.
I'm secretly scared, by doing so I'm allowing myself to enjoy this friendship too much.
Like I might develop a crush on him or something.
Please help. Any thoughts to kill this stupidly immature threesome fantasy in my mind would be great!!