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    Is the guy I'm seeing jealous?

    Hi. I've been seeing a guy for 4months exactly. We both like each other a lot, but we are very cautious. Last night, he and I were texting each other while watching the Lakers games. He was watching it at his friend's house and I was watching it at my house with my friends. After the game, he texted me, what I was doing with my friends. I texted him saying it was one of my friend's birthday and she was celebrating it at a club so I was going to stop by for a little bit. I asked him what he was upto. He said he was at his friend's house chilling and said to have fun at the club. I don't usually go to clubs, I'm not a big fan of it, I only go if one of my closest friends has her birthday party there, otherwise I don't go. I texted him to enjoy his time with his friends.
    About 3 hours later, he texts me asking me are you having fun?
    I texted him saying, honestly no, since it's not my thing, and I was leaving soon. I asked him what he was doing and he said he was at a bar with his friends drinking. I had a few drinks, but not drunk or buzzed, and we texted each other saying how we really like each other.

    Was he jealous that I was at a club since he texted me like 3 hours after I said I was going to a club? like a little concerned? is it a good thing that he thinks of me and texts me while he's drinking?

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    Sounds like he was thinking about you and wanted to know if you were having a good time.

    It didn't really seem like a "jealous" move.. but more of a "just checking in," sort of move.

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    If he'd showed up at the club, THAT would show jealousy.
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    Yeah, not jealousy. He's just thinking of you and isn't with you. Jealousy would also be forbidding you to go to a club when he is out at the bar.
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    That's not jealousy. He seems like a good guy, lets you go out and do things and trusts you.

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    yah no jealousy he was just thinking about you

    dont take it seriously

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