I understand that in life, there are going to be people who you will miss and love for the rest of your life. For example, your first love, or just someone special to you. And I find that it's okay to miss or still love someone as long as you don't hurt ur partner.
Now, me and my man been together for a long time like almost 10 years now. I know he loves me a lot or he did but lately or about two months ago, I caught him still looking up on his ex-girlfriend's picture online. I have no clues if she knew about this. Anyway, At first I thought it just pictures, no biggy, but because he told me before that he like and love that girl a lot, he wanted to be with her, marry her, but the only thing that stop him was because her mom disapproved them dating. This makes feel a little insecure inside and I did approach him about it. he said he's just checking her pics, not like what I think it is. But what it is that he stills looks up her pics?
And I have this feeling that he probably been checking her picture regularly online. Now just a few days ago, I found a picture of his girlfriend on my computer. I don't know what he wants to do with the picture, print it, but he forgot to delete the pic. I was really sad about it because this tells me that he still misses her and check her pictures occasionally. The thing is when I first approach him about I show him that I'm not happy about it and that what he did really hurts my feelings and let's not do anything that won't do any goods in our relationship because we've been together for so long and we will have soooo much to lose if we ever break up. So about the picture, is he wanting to get back with her now? still interested? miss her? unlike the past where his ex-girlfriend mom hates him, her mom now like him a lot.
So guys what do you think it is? Is my man confuse? He has a change of heart? want to get back with her? He still loves me but not as much as before that's why he did what did?