HI guys I just signed up today and thought this was agood place to start.
I recently have been heart broken Feb 25th 2009.
Here's the situation
Me and my gf were friends for about a year before we ever had any true feelings for each other. We met online and we started out as a long distance relationship.
she had been through a lot of abusive relationships and knew I was the "knight in shining armor" for her. She told me she loved me unconditionally and wanted to begin a life with me. I wanted this as well because I was very much in love with her.
So after about 7 months of the long distance relationship I moved down to Philadelphia in with her and her children.
Things were great we were madly in love. Loved spending time together and her kids would also mention that I was the best Boyfriend thier mom had ever had.
Sure everything wasn't perfect and we did have some ups and downs but nothing that we couldn't of talked about.
So she texts me that she is unhappy with the relationship and cannot continue to be with me. She said I could continue living with her but just as friends. My answer was "I didn't move half way around the country to be just friends". So 4 days later I moved back to Florida. She said we could continue to be friends and talk. As soon as I got here she stopped talking to me and started accusing me and blaming me for things that I did not do (like hack her computer). She has blocked my emails and cell phone number.
I still love her very much and I believe she is just angry at me for leaving and not sticking around. I mean why would I stick around to be her friend. I know I might of left a little hastily but it happened.
I guess now what I am trying to ask is. Do you think I have a 2nd chance with her or should I just leave it be. I know from a friend that she is seeing this guy. But I think that's her way of dealing with it. I have no idea how she feels about me truly. I know she is extremely angry at me but I believe deep down she must still love me. I mean that kind of love just doesnt go away after a week.