so my bf hasn't changed his messy ways. now when i talk to him about it he's like, "oh that's all? i'll clean up i promise." he doesn't do it and i have tried absolutely everything. i feel like i'm living with a really dirty roommate. he would rather pick up and leave somewhere else than actually help me out around the house.
i'm the only person who cleans. i have a bad back and i've thrown my back out several times mopping the floor or cleaning the tub,and he still won't do it. and if i ask him to he'll either not do it at all or ***** about it.
i'm so tired of it. i'm so turned off. i feel like a slave in this house. i am not going to be able to get through law school living with him and having to always be cleaning, doing laundry, etc.
the last solution is to leave. my lease runs out in february and that's aweful close. i haven't told him that i want to leave yet. he left this morning after a night of the silent treatment. i'm so sick of saying, "i just want you to help me." i've said it a million times that the silent treatment and moving out is really my last resort.
it's so upsetting. this man doesn't care about me enough to just do some simple things to keep me around. it's not fair because i love him and i want to be with him, but he won't bend.
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