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    not wanting The 'O' Word

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    I love it. However, I thought you were trying to abstain from sex until marriage? That will be hard to do with this level of intimacy.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    just do yourself a favor and keep his penis out of your mouth for now until you're perfectly comfortable.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    we are abstaingin but we was just talking baout it and it kinda grossed me out. i duno..

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    Blowjobs are just gross. The first time I heard about blowjobs it I thought it was some sort of lame joke.
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    If you really start going that far of course the temptation is going to be there to have sex. Me and my girlfriend have gone to oral, but I know for a fact we will not go any farther. Just something I have set that I will not allow no matter how tempting it is. Of course that has to do with the person.

    Oral at first takes some getting used to. She had already done it so she had no problem when we first started doing it. She asked me to do her and I tried and I just couldn't, after a few seconds I just couldn't do anymore. I felt disgusted, I wanted to just wash my mouth out and my face. It took me probably 4-5months to get used to it. And I completely understand what you mean by not wanting to kiss after that. Just takes some getting used to. Kinda like getting used to new foods. You have to gain an acquired taste for it.

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    goddammit you're young... and when you're young, you're stupid... and when you're stupid, you don't get satisfaction.

    to make it easier for you.. get over your fear....

    oral sex = satisfaction

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    1averagejoe, did you eventually acquire a taste for it? Is it still gross to you?

    To me, it isn't gross at all. I will totally tongue my boyfriend moments after he's gone down on me. Frankly, he does such a good job, I'm willing to do just about anything at that point, but the taste of my own kitty isn't icky at all. I'm a clean person.

    I agree with Vashti, though, LNF. If you do this, you are very likely going to want a nice, big bone, and it will be increasingly difficult for you both to remember why you're not doing it.

    IMO, oral sex is sex. Any time you have genital contact, it's sex. By engaging in oral, fingering, handjobs, etc., you're having sexual contact even if penetration never occurs.

    Think about why you aren't having sex until you get married and tell me how this all fits together in a way that makes sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional View Post
    oral sex = satisfaction
    By sucking a penis? I'd rather smoke pot.
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    I agree, Oral sex is satisfaction.


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    I'd rather smoke pole. I love doing it.
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    Anyone here who's not ****ed up?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    I'd rather smoke pole. I love doing it.
    Damn right. I prefer reciving but don't mind giving.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jimmy1218 View Post
    By sucking a penis? I'd rather smoke pot.
    i think it's the person receiving that's generally the one getting the satisfaction. has no one ever given you a blowjob i'm guessing?

    although, i have heard a few guys who don't enjoy them/can't get off from them. i always assumed it was bc the girl didn't really know what she was doing. but have any of you guys ever had that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nyc123 View Post
    although, i have heard a few guys who don't enjoy them/can't get off from them. i always assumed it was bc the girl didn't really know what she was doing. but have any of you guys ever had that?
    My ex told me I was the first girl who had ever succeeded. Boy, did I come to regret that. It took him, like, 20 minutes. That's a looong time to have something in your mouth.
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