Need Some Advice Fast

[babysexy]

HI .. My bf and i been together going on 4 years now (i am 25 and he is 27 going on 28 )..Before we got together he have talked about getting married and having a family ..( we live together) ..LAst nite my gf was over here and she asked him does he want to get married and his answer was no ..He was saying why should we get married i like how things are and i don't want to change anything ..What could have changed his mind i don't know ..What should i do stay are leave ? i want to get married and have family .

[vashti]

If your goal is to get married and have a family, and his is not, you are wasting your time by living with him. Move on.

[Junket]

Yeah, I feel the same as your boyfriend.

While it's not an issue at the moment I'm sure she'll come around one day and start giving me shit.

[Enigmos]

i don't recommend pressuring someone for marriage and a "family," whatever that means to you. if you're ready for marriage + family, and your mate is not, you either wait patiently, or find someone else who wants what you want now as well.

good luck.