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    She's way too tight...

    Me and my girlfriend have started trying to have sex. We're both 18. She's way too tight. I fingered her to loosen her up and it doesn't work. 1 finger is ok with her, 2 is pushing it she says it's uncomfortable. She gets really wet and slippery but nothing past my head will go in. I rub her clit and she loves that, she gets incredibly wet fast.

    She says I'm too big and that the head is really stretching her and hurting her.

    I tried going REALLY slow and kissing her to relax her and just thrusting at a minimal level to get some more lube so it would go in smoother but it doesn't work. After my head it just won't go in, no matter how wet she is.

    If just the head goes in, am i still a virgin?

    I'm thinking of buying some lube to help us with this.

    Any other suggestions?

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    If 2 fingers hurt her you'd better stop trying to stuff your dick in her. First keep working on the fingering.

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    I think she's just nervous. Those things were designed to push an entire baby out of, so I doubt she's physically incapable of accommodating a penis. Just do like girl68 says and stick to the fingering for now. Have you gone down on her?
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    If she's a virgin, it's going to hurt a lot the first few times. That's pretty normal. It helps if you give a lot of oral before you try to stuff your dick in there.

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    She doesn't like me going down there on her.

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    There are many other things you can do.

    1) Finger her (you've already done that obviously)
    2) Ask her if she has any toys (vibrators and/or dildos). I'm sure she has a vibrator. Then ask her if you can use one her toys on her. I'm sure she will accept your offer.
    3) Ask her about her fantasies (some fantasies don't have to be about vaginal sex)

    Also, there are things you can do while making out with her that are very pleasurable.
    1) Kiss her neck
    2) Play with ear lobes with your teeth
    3) Kiss her stomach
    4) Suck on her fingers

    I recommend just finding out what she likes and build up to sex rather than just doing sex from the start.
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    She might relax after having a drink or two. Or a toke or two.
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    Or you could just yell "surprise" and cram it all in...probably not gonna get you a lot more sex but hey your in.
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    I vote get her drunk
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post
    There are many other things you can do.

    1) Finger her (you've already done that obviously)
    2) Ask her if she has any toys (vibrators and/or dildos). I'm sure she has a vibrator. Then ask her if you can use one her toys on her. I'm sure she will accept your offer.
    3) Ask her about her fantasies (some fantasies don't have to be about vaginal sex)

    Also, there are things you can do while making out with her that are very pleasurable.
    1) Kiss her neck
    2) Play with ear lobes with your teeth
    3) Kiss her stomach
    4) Suck on her fingers

    I recommend just finding out what she likes and build up to sex rather than just doing sex from the start.
    I do all that. Except the vibrator thing. She doesn't have one.

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    Have you given her an orgasm with your fingers? That will relax her.
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    she's a virgin, nervous as hell and probably expecting it to hurt a lot. it's all about the relaxing. you could perhaps start the night by doing to a bar, going for a drink [or 2] then going home, have loads of foreplay and she should be relaxed. tell her that you're not going to have sex at the end or she may be worrying about it the whole time. just get her ridiculously turned on and in the moment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dewilliams2 View Post
    Or you could just yell "surprise" and cram it all in...probably not gonna get you a lot more sex but hey your in.
    Motherf*cker, my coffee almost went from mouth to keyboard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Motherf*cker, my coffee almost went from mouth to keyboard.
    Glad you liked my advice.

    Actually I had this very problem last night and the woman I am with isn't a virgin. Just really tight. She doesn't complain about it hurting but I can't seem to get more than a finger in her to start with but once I give her oral and play with her nipples and bite her neck...well I'm in....and it feels amazing. I've never been with a woman as tight as her.
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    This girl is not ready for sex.
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