I have been speaking to this girl for a while but there was a period where we stopped talking for a while and the reason we started talking again was because she was in contact with me. Our conversations got more flirty and it would always be me that ended the conversation or took a long time to reply and now we are going out on a first date in a few days time but in the last few days as my feelings have grown it seems like the tide has turned and now she is the one that will take a while to reply or break the conversation. Is there a way to try and regain the control, it feels horrible thinking she maybe losing interest and causes me to constantly obsess over checking for a message etc