ok, he WAS suppose to go active asap. That changed like a tamppn. Now he says he wants to wait til june.WTF? I can no longer enable my son to screw up. I told him I was moving out the end of this month, get a rommmate. He tells me this morning he cant afford it but can afford a payment on 4 wheeler! Geezuz Im spent with him. I totally feel as though Ive done beyond the call of duty of motherhood. He can move in with his neighbor. Then I was worried about the cruise, he cant go, but why should I not go because of his **** up? HEll no now.
As it stands, he's withdrawn from HS today, theres still a shot IF he passes the ACT he can graduate. But he's signing for the GED for Dec. Ok Kyle but you need to find other living arrangements.
Im NOT going to enable him anylonger. I feel moving out will get him going with his life sooner. Im pissed that he cant afford partial rent but he can now afford a payment for a 4 wheeler! BS. My mom is furious with me because Im going to to go on the cruise. WHY should I give up something Ive wanted to do for years because Kyle messed up? Thats not fair to me. Ive gone beyond the call of duty for motherhood. Screwed my credit score for him, etc. Its time to let him go and face the real world. Hes going on 19 and acting like he's 12. If I continue to live here it will only prolong what he needs to do. If I put him in an uncomfortable situation for a few weeks Im hoping it will give him a kick in the ass to go sooner!
Am I bad mom because Im mocing out and letting him fend for himself? Because Im going on the cruise without him? Why should I reward him for something like THAT with his attitude and lack of respect? Am I wrong here?