Guys start contact 90% of the time, based on my experience. Why don't you ask him out? Take a risk. Nothing risked, nothing gained. As a guy I've taken more risks asking out girls, and it works out 80% of the time. Those are darn good odds, because dating is much harder for a guy. They get lots of rejections, they have to pay for dates all the time, and it's hard to find a good match.
If you ask him out, and he gets scared away (maybe he's afraid of emotions), then doesn't that mean he's not ready for that emotional connection you are looking for?
If a girl doesn't want to be emotionally close to me, then she is not right for me. So we part ways so we both can find a better match. Makes sense, right?
Last edited by bulrush; 26-01-12 at 09:05 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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