my perfect wife

[kaiser27]

Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years she loves and respects me but she does not have some qualities i'd like my wife to have

here a list tell me if im wrong

She has listens to everything i say
Apologises backs down even when its my fault
Would do anything i ask even if its wrong or would atleast give it ago
Loves me
Submissive and fearful but not in a way like fearful of violence but fearful of upsetting me for the love she's got for me
Low maintenance
Relies on me
Does not have over 5 friends (friends = people you spend more than 1 hour per week)
Does not like to hang out with friends in Starbucks and caffee holywood trying to recreate Friends
Realist does not follow movies/romantic/sexy bullshit from tv

[lesa]

You think you would like a woman to have those things but you won't. You won't respect her...you only think you would.

[Dasein]

Hmm good luck with that...

[shh!]

Buy a blowup doll. You won't ever find all that in one woman, and if you did, she'd be brain dead.

[1averagejoe]

haha!!!

Are you serious?

[agatha]

Only stupid girls would do what you wanted to do!

Find that girl in Africa!

[Mish]

She has listens to everything i say
Apologises backs down even when its my fault
Would do anything i ask even if its wrong or would atleast give it ago
Loves me
Submissive and fearful but not in a way like fearful of violence but fearful of upsetting me for the love she's got for me
Low maintenance
Relies on me
Does not have over 5 friends (friends = people you spend more than 1 hour per week)
Does not like to hang out with friends in Starbucks and caffee holywood trying to recreate Friends
Realist does not follow movies/romantic/sexy bullshit from tv

Is that a list of qualities you look for in a wife or a list of qualities you dislike in your woman?


It's hard to tell

[Cain]

And I thought I was picky.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Lol...I wont do what Im sure alot of you expect me to do...But anyway OP, you're basically saying you want a codependent chick who depends on you for happiness and acceptance. It's so sad that your self esteem is so low that it takes a woman lowering her standards to make you feel good about yourself. That's not something to be proud of dude, seriously. You're a loser.

[lesa]

Is that a list of qualities you look for in a wife or a list of qualities you dislike in your woman?


It's hard to tell

I reread the OP. You're right. Let's hope those are qualities he dislike in his woman.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Mishanya and lesa, its actually not hard to tell.

1.) "Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years she loves and respects me but she does not have some qualities i'd like my wife to have

here a list tell me if im wrong"... he is listing the qualities he would like his wife to have.

2.) If you read the list, how can someone want a "perfect wife" to not love them?

[lesa]

2.) If you read the list, how can someone want a "perfect wife" to not love them?

You're right. I was really hoping that was his 'dislike' list but "loves me" proves this IS his 'like' list. How disconcerting.

I wonder what is the OP's country/religion?

[Only-virgins]

Man, my list is so much shorter

My list of the perfect girl

1.) I have to love her
2.) She has to love me

[anachronistic]

She's changed the way I think about a lot of things. Even love. It's so spontaneous that I have to trust her in order to get through each day. She is understanding and supportive of my desires, and she is jealous of the air I breath. She is the sudden inspiration in me to wake up early and stay up late, trying to find meaning in all the little things in life, that I have ignored previously.

[ecojeanne]

She's changed the way I think about a lot of things. Even love. It's so spontaneous that I have to trust her in order to get through each day. She is understanding and supportive of my desires, and she is jealous of the air I breath. She is the sudden inspiration in me to wake up early and stay up late, trying to find meaning in all the little things in life, that I have ignored previously.

wow that is incredible....