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Thread: Update On My Boyfriend Trouble - Intervention Time

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    Update On My Boyfriend Trouble - Intervention Time

    Well, last night I decided to take the initiative with my boyfriend and his indecisiveness about returning to his ex in Australia or staying with me. Last Thursday, it was very disturbing to see my bf in emotional turmoil and flip-flopping between wanting me and wanting his ex. He's functioning on pure and volatile emotions of love, guilt, regret, anger and God knows what else, and is in no condition to make a responsible decision about his future happiness. So I called him last night and suggested that he see a psychotherapist. I got the name of the doctor from my therapist. My bf embraced the idea and said that after his trip to Boston this weekend where he's staying with friends, if he's still in turmoil, he will make an appointment to see the therapist. I hope he does see her and I feel better for taking action and intervening instead of standing on the sidelines in pain and doing nothing at all.
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    $5 says he doesn't see her.

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    Yeah, I agree Lloyd. It was nice of you to suggest that to him Margot. I just don't see him going since he said after he gets back from his trip and IF he's still in turmoil.

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    Knowing my bf, he will still be an emotional wreck when he returns from Boston on Monday. And he sounded horrible on the phone last night. Anyway, it's his choice to see her or not see her. I've done everything I can to help him.
    Last edited by margot732; 21-10-05 at 12:10 AM.

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    I still think he's a Playa.

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    You're right, you've done all you can and that's great of you to give him a name of someone to go to.

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    And why do you want a guy who doesnt even know if he wants to be with you??
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    Quote Originally Posted by TAVS
    And why do you want a guy who doesnt even know if he wants to be with you??
    Seriously, whats your answer to this question??

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    Quote Originally Posted by carpflounder
    Seriously, whats your answer to this question??
    Because I love him and don't want to boot him out of my life just yet.

    Maybe it's tough for you to comprehend this fact, but then that's your problem not mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by margot732
    Maybe it's tough for you to comprehend this fact, but then that's your problem not mine.
    Hmmm....nice attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by margot732
    Because I love him and don't want to boot him out of my life just yet.

    Maybe it's tough for you to comprehend this fact, but then that's your problem not mine.
    And yet I go through my day with a smile on my face while the man you love puts you through hell.
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    Uh-oh, "nerd" has been called...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TAVS
    And yet I go through my day with a smile on my face while the man you love puts you through hell.
    You're quite the sadist, TAVS. Just how many real friends do you have and does any woman truly love you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by margot732
    You're quite the sadist, TAVS. Just how many real friends do you have and does any woman truly love you?
    Whoa!
    *grabs popcorn*

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