Guys what would you do if you found out your g/f was bisexual?

[Nikki~88]

Okay, I'm really curious because I am bisexual and I tend not to tell the guys I do date that I am... I've had some pretty bad reactions to it... I'm more into guys that girls, but really what DO guys think about that? It's not like I would date a guy and a girl at the same time, and if I did something with a girl it would definately have to be okay with my guy... I would actually perfer the guy to be there... so what do you guys really think?

[vashti]

I don't know what *guys* really think, but the bad reaction you've experienced probably has to do with the fact that not only does a guy have to worry about all the other guys (whom he is probably more comfortable competing with), you are telling him he has to worry about all the other girls, too.

[Gigabitch]

Why are you dating conservative guys? There are piles of guys out there that totally get off on the lesbian thing (or say they do).

Maybe location is your problem. No a big bi population in Oklahoma, is there?

[derm]

I've never had a girl tell me she's Bi, but was with a girl once who I believe was.

The only concern I'd have is that when I'm giving her head or fingering her or whatever.....she'd be there thinking. Guys are useless if I had a girl here she'd know exactly what would turn me on.

[NeoSeminole]

I would try to have a threesome with another girl, but I would never marry her.

[Cybog]

and if I did something with a girl it would definately have to be okay with my guy... I would actually perfer the guy to be there...

Marry me?





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[E-Hero Candyman]

First off, it is generally more-widely accepted that all girls are a little bit bisexual.

Having never been in a relationship (unfortunately) but mature enough to understand the situation entirely, the majority of guys would be completely ok with it and are likely to be open to a FFM one-ff (or more) scenario.

I happen to be one of those guy (yet doubt that will ever occur to me) but the most important thing for me in a relationship is that there will not be anything to jeopardise the "US". There must be commitment and devotion between us.

If your guy is secure with his relationship with you, he wont have any trouble with your bisexuality. The fact that you seem to be open with sharing your experience with the guy works in your favor. I know I would not be happy if my gf wanted a solo lesbian encounter.

In the end, if you dont intend to cheat on him, you may not even need to tell him at all that you're bisexual. Just act on it. Buy lesbian porn for him and watch it with him. He'll probably pick up on it eventually and want the two of you to bring in another woman.

I have a feeling everything will work out ok.

[TDurden]

personally, i don't know any guys that would have a problem with dating a girl who was bisexual. you seem really nice and you say that you would never cheat on a guy so i really can't see why'd there would be any issues. unless as others have said you've met really conservative guys. i know i wouldn't care if i had a girlfriend tell me she was bisexual, if anything it'd be a bit of a turn on.

[Mathias]

I dated a bisexual girl, and my best friend is a bisexual girl (two different people). Not really a big deal...if they don't cheat, which you would hope they wouldn't, then it's no different than being straight.

And the best way to ruin a relationship is to have a threesome. But if you're young, and want to have fun, I'll be rooting for you.

[Henry123]

My "gf" is bisexual. She left me to go to university but also with her girlfriend.
Im still debaiting the situation. ....It sucks!

[frank001]

ive had acouple of girls tell me there bisexual, there aint anyfing wrong wiv it

[Rob26]

It wouldn't be acceptable to me.

[Parky]

I think i would pull away. I wouldnt like a bi.

[ACR]

Id ask her if I wasnt good enough for her.