Do women want to give head or do they do it to please?

[BigQid]

I want to suck on a woman's breasts. I like giving head, but if there was a woman who said she didn't want me to, it wouldn't matter that much to me. Do women want to give head or do they do it to please?

[Aeradalia]

Some women do it because they know it will please... they themselves may not take much enjoyment in the act other than the man's reaction to it... others are aroused by the act itself and even furthermore because they know it pleases the man.

So it's really dependent on the woman... just as some men like cunnilingus whereas others do not.

[ecojeanne]

i only ever did it to please, i didn't enjoy it but pretended to enjoy it, i even bought books on how to do it properly, it saved me from showing how i really felt...but thats just me, i think some women do enjoy it

[BigQid]

No, I have talked to women and I know that some women like to do it when they are doing it. As a guy I have sat there and thought to myself, "man I'd like to suck her titties." Most men don't have titties, but if women wanted to express their oral fixation they might be sitting there and have the thought run through the mind "man I'd like to suck his dick." I am asking if any of you have heard one of your friends say something to that effect.

[Aeradalia]

Yes... some women do think "I'd like to suck his dick." I do think about it in relations to my bf..

Fellatio is something I happen to enjoy... whereas other women may not.

[elle]

but if women wanted to express their oral fixation they might be sitting there and have the thought run through the mind "man I'd like to suck his dick." I am asking if any of you have heard one of your friends say something to that effect.

no, never, well maybe 1 0r 2 % of them
They only do it to please and i've never heard any of my friends say that, even those who were older than me, and even about their boyfriends or guys they had a crush on, and even in women's books about sex it's always like: "of course you may not wanna do that but if you really want this man to stay you should do it".

P.S.men's and women's brains work differently when it comes to sex.cuz they are DIFFERENT SEXES hah

[Cain]

no, never, well maybe 1 0r 2 % of them
They only do it to please and i've never heard any of my friends say that, even those who were older than me, and even about their boyfriends or guys they had a crush on, and even in women's books about sex it's always like: "of course you may not wanna do that but if you really want this man to stay you should do it".

P.S.men's and women's brains work differently when it comes to sex.cuz they are DIFFERENT SEXES hah

You should really stop throwing out bullshit statistics.

I've known MANY women that loved to suck dick. Of course they don't get actual pleasure from it, but they enjoyed doing it. I don't get pleasure from licking a woman's pussy but it doesn't mean I don't enjoy it.

[carl1222]

I've asked several girls this question, and here's the consensus answer:

"It's the ONE thing I can do with a man where I know for sure that that it's what I'm doing, and ONLY what I'm doing that is giving him sexual pleasure."

Some girls also enjoy having control over a guy's sexual pleasure as well.

Carl.

[Junket]

no, never, well maybe 1 0r 2 % of them
They only do it to please and i've never heard any of my friends say that, even those who were older than me, and even about their boyfriends or guys they had a crush on, and even in women's books about sex it's always like: "of course you may not wanna do that but if you really want this man to stay you should do it".

P.S.men's and women's brains work differently when it comes to sex.cuz they are DIFFERENT SEXES hah

Elle, you're too young and inexperienced to speak for all women.

Secondly, I know you think I was just trying to be rude when I asked you if you've ever performed fellatio, but the kind of guys you're gunning for are going to expect that you do this. You want the rich men? You gotta pay the price. Unfortunately it sounds like you're predisposed to not liking it, and therefore it will be just that, a "price" you have to pay, rather than a bonus to having a sugar daddy.

I just asked my girlfriend to be brutally honest about this, and she said "yes, I enjoy most of it, but I don't particularly enjoy the whole cumming in the mouth part, but I'll do that part because I know you like it".

There are a few members here that do enjoy taking it in the mouth and swallowing. Bluesummer comes to mind.

There are different benefits to giving oral for either gender who's performing it:

1.) People genuinely enjoy it, the act, the taste, the intimacy.

2.) Some people, (men and women) consider giving oral an act of submission, or even humiliation, degradation. But as one of our members had mentioned, if you can give good oral, you're taking control of your partner's pleasure, they're opening themselves to you, in fact, they're at your mercy. You can give them however much or however little pleasure as you want.

3.) Oral is usually a mutual exchange. No man should ever expect his partner to go down on him without the intention of doing the same. Same goes for anal. A lot of this comes down to your mindset. I don't always want to go down on my girlfriend, sometimes I'm just not in the mood, and those few instances it feels like a chore, and therefore it's probably not going to be as enjoyable for her either.

Do ya see what I'm getting at?

Anyway, you have a lot to learn Elle, if you just try to keep an open mind you'll come away from our little part of the internet with more relationship knowledge than you could hope to ever find from speaking to your friends.

Some women hate oral, some love it, but the amount that enjoy is easily a much higher percentage than what you think.

[vashti]

Whenever a guy talks about how much he likes to "give head", I assume he is gay. It takes me a moment's reflection to realize he is talking about going down on a woman.

[Gribble]

Going down on a woman in and of itself is kind of gross when you think about it.

But when I have a girl scissoring my neck with her legs and arching her back, all the while gasping and moaning--well, I quite enjoy that. I imagine if men were more responsive it might actually be a pleasure for women. Unfortunately the best you'll get out of me is a sigh.

[Cain]

I love licking a woman's pussy, but I have to feel some kind of a connection with her and know it's clean. I won't lick a girl I haven't known long enough or someone that's just a lay. In fact, there's only been one girl that I absolutely loved going down on and couldn't seem to get enough... and it wasn't my crazy ex. I actually didn't like going down on her.

[elle]

Elle, you're too young and inexperienced to speak for all women.

Secondly, I know you think I was just trying to be rude when I asked you if you've ever performed fellatio, but the kind of guys you're gunning for are going to expect that you do this. You want the rich men? You gotta pay the price. Unfortunately it sounds like you're predisposed to not liking it, and therefore it will be just that, a "price" you have to pay, rather than a bonus to having a sugar daddy.

I just asked my girlfriend to be brutally honest about this, and she said "yes, I enjoy most of it, but I don't particularly enjoy the whole cumming in the mouth part, but I'll do that part because I know you like it".

There are a few members here that do enjoy taking it in the mouth and swallowing. Bluesummer comes to mind.

There are different benefits to giving oral for either gender who's performing it:

1.) People genuinely enjoy it, the act, the taste, the intimacy.

2.) Some people, (men and women) consider giving oral an act of submission, or even humiliation, degradation. But as one of our members had mentioned, if you can give good oral, you're taking control of your partner's pleasure, they're opening themselves to you, in fact, they're at your mercy. You can give them however much or however little pleasure as you want.

3.) Oral is usually a mutual exchange. No man should ever expect his partner to go down on him without the intention of doing the same. Same goes for anal. A lot of this comes down to your mindset. I don't always want to go down on my girlfriend, sometimes I'm just not in the mood, and those few instances it feels like a chore, and therefore it's probably not going to be as enjoyable for her either.

all that with condom -- maybe
BTW on prostite's websites some of them have "having anal, vaginal sex without condom" as an option but NEVER licking it without condom; so it must be a big deal after all.
and so if you lick it WITH condom i don't see it as a big deal because tecknicaly you are not licking IT just the rubber of the condom..

[Junket]

all that with condom -- maybe
BTW on prostite's websites some of them have "having anal, vaginal sex without condom" as an option but NEVER licking it without condom; so it must be a big deal after all.
and so if you lick it WITH condom i don't see it as a big deal because tecknicaly you are not licking IT just the rubber of the condom..

Oh, elle.

You're so cute.

[Gribble]

all that with condom -- maybe
BTW on prostite's websites some of them have "having anal, vaginal sex without condom" as an option but NEVER licking it without condom; so it must be a big deal after all.
and so if you lick it WITH condom i don't see it as a big deal because tecknicaly you are not licking IT just the rubber of the condom..

Let me preface this before I sound like a disgusting freak. In college I did a semester-long investigative research project on prostitution. I know a bit more about it than the average guy.

You're absolutely wrong. All decent escorts provide what is called a girlfriend experience (GFE). If a girl offers GFE she's offering full-service with condom (always) and bareback (most often) BJs. The only prostitutes that provide sex without condoms are the cheap ones who don't tend to have websites, in-calls, or any of that. In other words, street walkers.