What shall i do?

[jammyme]

Right here it goes... just over a year ago I started a new job, i met this girl who I worked with.
She started to flirt with me and we started to chill together outside of work, she kissed me one night and then a 4 month affair started as she had a boy friend of five years which i did not know about at the start of all this

After the 4 months we fall out with each other..until about 3 months ago she has started to flirt and wanted to start hanging out again which includes going around to hers when her boy friend is at work!
Also i get sms messages at random times of the day, i totally loved her and i think she liked me loads, but it only stopped due to her having a boy friend
what shall i do???

[girl68]

get the hell out of there and send her off to her bf's she's not leaving him for you.

[Confusion:S]

Do not get messed up in something like this. If that girl will do that to her boyfriend and not have the decency to break up with him then she is not worth it. I know it's difficult, especially if you love her but tell her the only way that you two can be together is if she breaks up with her boyfriend. If she does, then she must love you. If she doesn't then she doesn't love you and isn't worth you giving her the time of day.

[IncognitoSir]

Just walk away.....even if she left her bf for you it only proves that she would do the same to you in the long run. She's a shitty person for what she's done and is currently doing to her bf. You wouldnt want to get mixed up with a chick like that.

[Mish]

what shall i do???

It depends on how you view her. Do you think she is a trustworthy person who is not going to do the same to you?