Does this girl really like me?

[Shawn2188]

Alright guys I need some advice, me and this girl have been going out for just about a month and a half, we work at the same restaurant thats how we met...well she is really cool, down to earth and stuff like that, besides coming over to my house alot, we have only been on a couple of actual dates...cuz our work schedules differ sometimes....now maybe Im just paranoid but im not sure she likes me, i mean everytime I see her at work we still kiss and hug and stuff like that, but she rarely calls me which could be due to the fact that she dosent have a cell phone only a home phone at her parents house. I mean when we first met she seemed to be in love me and that kinda freaked me out I guess cuz Ive never had a woman act that way for me but after a couple of weeks I realized I really liked her to. In the past couple of weeks though she hasnt been over to my house or anything like that when I ask her she says she's having family problems and been depressed over her work situation cuz she had hoped to be in college by now. We havent had sex yet, but I really want to, we almost did a couple of weeks ago but it was gonna be in the backseat of my car and she said she wanted our first time to be special, so this saturday night I was gonna get a hotel room and...she said she really wanted to but she was still having the effects of her period which had started the previous monday and didnt want to, now im not even sure if the effects of a period can last 5 days. But yesterday we had an employee meeting at work, and she was just all over me saying how beautiful I was and introuducing me as her boyfriend to the owners, she asked me if I was in love with her and I told I was falling in love with which isnt a lie...so i dont know maybe I am just paranoid or maybe she dosent like me? maybe you guys can give me some advice and what you think and what I can do to make this better... I dunno...Ive never been good with women and I dont wanna lose this girl...so any advice would be appreciated.

[apatheticlyme]

I dont know, I'm probably not good at giving advice..but as for the period thing..periods can last up to 7 days. mine for instance lasts 4 but ill have some gross discharge for another 3-5 days. so. i think she could be telling the truth about that.

[Ginger Snap]

It seems like there's some indecisiveness on her part, and it may be a good time to just be really straight-forward with her... just to get a better feel for where she stands with you. Sometimes people use other people to fill an emotional void in their lives without considering that what they're doing might really hurt the other person. Women, especially, tend to be very playful and flirty when we're around someone we like. Sometimes it's because we genuinely like the guy, but sometimes it's just to give us a good feeling (and nothing deeper than that.)

So... it really could go either way in my opinion. I definitely think you should ask her. Good luck!

Oh... and no use trying to figure out menstrual issues. We're all different. Some of us (myself included) are affected by the physical/emotional symptoms for a couple of weeks out of the month. Be grateful you don't contend with it!

[Shawn2188]

Any Advice on things I could do to make her feel better? Ive never been anygood at helping people feel better.

[Raze]

Why are you guys PDAing at work? = / That's just an absolutely foreign concept to me. I've never even seen anyone do that in the work environment.

[Shawn2188]

cuz nobody really cares. As long as we do our jobs.

[girl68]

Periods can be as long as 10 days... 5 days is relatively short.

[TheTooya]

Periods can be as long as 10 days... 5 days is relatively short.

She speaks the truth...

Doesn't mean sex isn't an option after 2 or 3 days, DDDDD

Really it just sounds like she is nervous. Give her a reasonable amount of time, let things cruise.