I met this girl on the internet and so far we have gone out twice. Although we talk on the phone almost everyday from 11pm-3am. Only at nite though which is strange but we exchange txt messages etc. I thought she was into me sending me messages "Hey Good Looking, Hope your havin a nice day" .. I would send nice messages back.
Her personality is awesome and pure long term material but I am not doing this right. I am too much of the nice guy. She recently graduated from University and on the second date I got her a flower to congratulate her. She said "I have to give you a hug for this" ..."Thanks" ... we went out for dinner and she held my arm while walking and at Dinner we held hands for a bit (1 -2 minutes). We have a good time together and I am somewhat confident but I get a lame azzz 5 second hug at the end and she just leaves.
We talk online all the time but our conversations are mature and usually about work, school we laugh at times etc ... I was messin with her the other day on MSn messenger and told her i will bring her a coffee at school but that warrants a kiss. She joked and said "here catch this"... the next day I mentioned it because I didn't go and she said "Whats with this kiss thing all of a sudden"? ... She seems to be a tease and I can't asses whether she is into me or likes to be wined and dined and enjoy going out. Should I make a move to kiss her and break the ice ... if so any ideas? ... She likes to tease for sure but I gotta crack that force field if possible or am I wasting my time and gonna end up a good friend?
I mean if a girl is into you would she tease or be straight up and want to make a move as well. Also, complimenting her and being the nice guy doesn't work as much does it.