Originally Posted by
Anonymous456
I hope Google Translate can translate my words here.
Okay, so if I were to summarize your story to you, it would be that you gave her the wrong hints, and that you accidentally and indirectly suggested that you don't like her in a romantic way. I think that's the problem here, you gave her expectations, yet you crushed those expectations. I think at this point, I'd assume that she already moved on, however if you still want to go after her, here are my suggestions.
1. Figure out if she still likes you
It's important to establish that if you seek to have a relationship as your end goal with her, you need to definitively know whether or not she likes you. This is especially true in your case as it seems like directly asking her out, after she's just moved on, might end in a bitter disaster. But if you're still keen on being honest with her, even if she doesn't like you anymore, then I'd suggest you go for it. There is a possibility that she'll reciprocate your feelings.
2. State your intentions clearly
It seems that you like her (if I'm not mistaken). Communication is important in clearing up misunderstandings, so go tell her how you feel mate! The more vague you make yourself out to be, the less progress you'll have in clearing things up. Do this by having a chat with her or something. It doesn't have to be planned nor formal, although you most certainly can make it that way. You can do this by inviting her to a school event or festival where there are opportunities for you to have a serious conversation. The atmosphere in these events are usually light to, so it can help better the mood when you guys are talking. You can also bring it up in a random conversation, if you feel like its appropriate. Or if you're a coward like me, do it through text. I'll have to warn you though that talking to her through text is not going to be as effective as meeting face to face, as it may lower your chances of getting a desired response.
3. Accept whatever answer she gives back at you
If she tells you that she doesn't like you anymore, then accept that and don't force the issue. I won't blame you though, if you'd want to try asking her out again, but I suggest you do this when the circumstances are right. Are you rekindling your old romance? Is she beginning to like you again. Those are some of the questions you're going to have to ask yourself, if you are to try again.
If she accepts your romantic feelings, then uhh... Accept her answer, and start being more sensitive toward her. Don't go overboard though.
Side Note: Okay, just because she likes ginger hair and you have dark hair doesn't automatically mean she doesn't like you anymore. It's a possibility, but not something that one should make conclusions from. I think she's just trying to test you out, and see if you have feelings for her. But then again, I could be wrong.
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Another side note: I'd like to hear back from you if you're fine with that.