Need some advice ladies

[mattp]

Long story short iv been on a couple social outings and one real date with this girl i like, which went well.
i will be in the area around her work to pick some things up.

Would it be ok to take her out on her lunch break? or would that be kinda weird?

Thanks.

[xxazurexx]

Does she know that you are going to be in her area of work? Or are you just that way on and thinking of surprising her?

I'm not keen on having surprises sprung on me (having a guy show up when I'm not expecting him) and especially if I hardly know him - but I wouldn't find it weird, perhaps a bit annoying. If I knew you were gonna be around though, I'd be thinking there's a chance you might show up.

[MadMardegan]

Or else you could just ring her and say "hey, I'm be around your work tomorrow, want to grab some lunch together?"

[mattp]

I dont wanna surprise her, i am going to inform her, but i was wondering even if i ask would that be odd.

Looks like its okay as long as she is aware im coming?

[Mongoose]

No harm in asking, especially if you've already been on a date that went well. Go for it

[xxazurexx]

I dont wanna surprise her, i am going to inform her, but i was wondering even if i ask would that be odd.

Looks like its okay as long as she is aware im coming?

Why would it be odd and to ask a woman you have already dated to go for lunch??

Did the first time you asked her on a date, feel odd? Asking her to lunch is like a second date.

[mattp]

yea your right, i think im just anxious...

[smackie9]

You should be confident in yourself not to be on here asking such silliness.

[mattp]

You should be confident in yourself not to be on here asking such silliness.

YES MAM! i just needed some reassurance