Hi, I am a 22 year old male dating a 24 year old female. We have been together for about a year now. I will start from the beginning. I was at the bar and this girls parents were gone for the weekend so she invited people over to her house after the bar. Everybody ended up passing out except me and my now girlfriend. We ended up sleeping together and having sex. In the morning she told me she had a boyfriend and not to tell anyone about it. She then contacted me a couple weeks later telling me she has a crush on me and wants to still fool around behind her boyfriends back. We eventually got caught and they broke up and we stayed together. Now a year later our relationship seems to be getting off track. She has become very distant and depressed. (She suffers from depression) Since she has been 14 years old she has always been in a relationship. Always. She has lived a life through men, she doesn't really have an existence without them. She said she molds to who ever shes with. As a result she has become a totally lost person. She has no idea who she is anymore and what she wants to do for a career and is just in a deep depression right now. I feel like I am losing her and I also think she might cheat on me soon, if she hasn't already due to this. Can someone please help me here. Any suggestions would help. Thank you.
I just want to add that she is an amazing person who is loving caring and so smart. I love her and care for her deeply.